Friday, October 1, 2010
YOUR DESTINY
How much do you think your destiny depends on what type of people your parents/guardian are? Do you think how you were raised controls your future or is it more about you taking the wheel? (Due by Wednesday, Oct 6 no later than midnight) *Entries arriving after midnight or not meeting the 350-550 word count will not be graded*
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I believe is a lot my destiny depends on the type of people my parents are. Your Parent is the ones who made you and if it wasn’t for you would have been here. I been they brought you out here to have a life. If they know there are going to be challenges then they should have went to plan b. Parents are here to guide you through the roads and not let you make mistakes. But you know sometimes in life you will have to make mistake in life. Your parents want the best for you. If they do they should always be there when you’re down or need help. They are different kind of parents who don’t care at all and just let their kids do whatever they feel like. That why I believe they should be more focus on the child and their future I mean it going to be a long road for them. Parent shelter you and gave you everything’s you need. At time stuff happens but when it all comes around parents are suppose to be there. Your destiny is what your parent look at a lot and that why they are always on your back for every little thing. Parents don’t want their child to make the same mistakes as they did. That why they guide them. Another main reason also depends on how you were raised and how well your parents teach your matter and the things you need to learn while going up and becoming an adult. As time comes parents are suppose to let go and let you handle the world on your own. You don’t want your mom or dad to keep telling you so much of things. You are adult or becoming coming one. You make mistakes but at the end of it you learn from it. That how life goes in life going through the whole process is lot but if you know you are ready and can handle yourself out there then it should be no worrying about. You might need a little push one in a while. At time adults and teens do get a little stuck. That little push is where your parent comes to show you another way is that path is going well as you thought it would be. Just don’t end up in a bad position.
ReplyDeleteI don’t believe your destiny depends on what type of people your parents/guardians are. How you are raised doesn’t really control your future its more about you taking the wheel and making the right choices. As you grow up life is going to give you sum challenges and its up to you to make the best of them weather its bad or good that’s when you take the wheel and make your choice, its ok to make an mistake cause you can always learn from it and it would only make you stronger. Don’t give into pressure because that’s when you make bad choices and give up on yourself and that only makes you weak. if your parents aren’t in your life it might make you feel away like they don’t love you but because your parents weren’t there for you doesn’t mean your life is over you can always make yourself better For Example; if Your parents aren’t in your life when or if you have kids that’s when you can take charge and be there for your kids. Your parents don’t determine your destiny. The choice is yours if you choose that you want to rob a bank even though that would be smart what could your parents do the choice is your. You want to Become president of the united states. Make it happen ! Its your life do what makes you happy.
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ReplyDeleteI feel as if they way your raised cant create how your future is ,the reason why I feel this way is because if your living in a bad home its up to you to try to find a way to better your self because there’s people who are in wonderful homes with parents who care and whined up being nothing in there future. You have to do what you have to do for your self because and the end of the day they don’t follow you every they can help you school wise but you have to want a good future in order to get one. ya parent can only teach so much but you can be totaly diffrent from them no matter how much they teach you or try to help you, you make your future at the end of the day.
It's kind of both, how your guardians are and if you take the wheel. I say this because everybody is different. If your the type of person who looks up to their guardians as a hero then whatever they taught you or however they raised you, you will grow up to be like that. But if you were somebody who didn’t really agree with them or saw them as a bad example then you will take the wheel and find out what’s best for you and your future. In my own opinion I would go with looking up to my guardian and choosing my fate. I look up to my mother so when the time comes to choose my destiny I would think and look back on how I looked up to my mother and what she taught me and based on that I would make the decision whether that future is right for me. If she taught me to be a caring, loving, or giving person, then a doctor or something that gives back to the world would be a great future. But if she taught me to be a foul, cruel, or a person filled with hatred, then my destiny would be to kill or rob or do things I’m not suppose to. Growing up me and my mom watched a lot of forensic files, CSI, law & order, etc. and that’s mainly why I want to become a homicide detective. Seeing stuff like that all these years it became interesting. So in my case my destiny depends on a lot of what my mother has taught me throughout my life and more to come. But for people that want to find their destiny by themselves their destiny depends little on what their guardian had raised them but big on what kind of person they are. Also there are people who want to wait and see what happens in life. so all in all what i'm trying to say is everybody is different in their own way so there is no right answer to this particular topic, but my answer who be that my destiny will highly depend on how I have been raised by my guardian.
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no i don,t think your destiny depends on my parents but it has alot to do with it but your parents mine be the respectful loving parent and the kid can be a rude and crazy person .so its up to you if you want to do what your parent want you to do or you can go on your own thing.. and yes i think 96% of the time how you are raised have alot to do with how your going to be in the future most of the time if you are in a house of rude and nasty people you are going to be a rude and nasty person and if you are in a house of clean and respectful people you will most likely be and smart clean and respectful person but sometimes it have to do with your friends to because they can have to dirty nasty mouthed people and they can turn you into one also.so at the end of the day its up to you and you only to do what you want to do we cannt make you do it
ReplyDeleteand also its up to our parents to make ours live the best it can be becuase most of your parents are young and dude just like us
ReplyDeleteI think it is a little bit of both. Your parents definitely play a role in your destiny because they are the people who instill certain values and morals in you from the time you are born until the moment you are out of their care. In turn you take these values and morals and use them in your everyday life so that influences what you view as important and the type of person you are. Also your parents are legally responsible so this means that you follow their rules. For example if your parents are constantly pushing you to do good in school this may create a strong work ethic within you. As result you may grow to like school, thus adding to your chances of going on to receive a higher education, thus leading to better job opportunities.
ReplyDeleteHowever as you get older you become able to think and make decisions for yourself. We don’t always do everything our parents want us to do. For example you have a deep interest in music, you may decide that school is not for you and you want to drop out of school and pursue music full time this is a decision that only you can make because even if your parents don’t agree with your decision there is nothing they can do about it. No one can force you to do anything you don’t want to do but there are consequences for not doing things the way your parents want them to be done. On the contrary What if that child did ended up going to college and getting a job, sure the parents are happy because the child did what they wanted him or her to do but is that person happy. I think the most important part of being an individual is to make your life how you want it to be Ultimately parents lay the ground work for what they aspire you to be. More than likely you and your parents will have similar characteristics, for example if someone says ‘’Your stubborn like your father.’’ But you have the final say in your life
I believe that your destiny can easily be altered by enviorment,parents and how you were rasied. I believe that your destiny can be changed by your enviorment.One reasonn i say this is because if you live in a good enviorment then you will have alot of good things around you.This includes the people and the atmosphere.I say people because if there is positive people in your enviorment then they might encourge and push you more to strive to complete your destiny.The atmosphere also can help you achieve the same goal its like having a good person.Now if your enviorment is bad it can affect you. If there is negative people and atmosphere they will alter your goal.If a person keeps telling you cant do something then eventually you will began to think you cant do it. Your parents can also affect your goal.If your parent are not in your life it could be good for your goal.I say this because when your parents arent there you begin to grow up quicker. You become more mature so you have the maturity to pursue your goal. If your parents are in your life they can baby you therefore you wont nessasarily be ready to pursue your goal. Also if your parent does alot to ensure you will succeed like checking your grades daily making sure all work is complete then they could have an affect. This would give you a trait of determination meaning not quitting so when you have a destiny on your mind you will be determined to make sure that you do not quit on your goal.I think if we really wanted to we could control our own destiny. I think we are sometimes just too lazy we want other people to just tell us what to do when to do it. If we take control of what we want then us and only us can control where our destiny is and what it is. Inconclusion How much do you think your destiny depends on what type of people your parents/guardian are Do you think how you were raised controls your future or is it more about you taking the wheel can simply be answered as we control our destiny if we want to.
ReplyDeletePERSONALLY I THINK IT DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU ARE TEACHING TO GET MANY OR ANY STUDENT INVOLVED IN ANY EDUCATION TEACHING STRATAGIES. ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE TO TEACH IF A STUDENT ARE WILLING TO LEARN IT.SOME STUDENTS THINK THAT THEY COULD RUN CLASSROOMS AND TEACHING TREASURES TOO EDUCATION WISE, ALL THOUGH THEY DONT TEACHERS SHOULD GET INFORMATION OR IDEAS FROM THE STUDENTS PROSPECTIVE SO THAT MAYBE STUDENTS WOULDNT THINK EDUCATION IS INTERESTING. STUDENTS GET BORED OUT TO QUICKLY ALL THE TEACHER HAVE TO DO IS KEEP THE CLASS MOVING AND KNOW WHATS INTERESTING IN WHAT THE STUDENTS LIKE.STUDENTS LACK OF PARTICIPATION AND AXING QUESTIONS, IF YOU DONT GET SOMETHING OR HAVING TROUBLE WITH IT AX A TEACHER OR GET HELP FROM A PAIR. BUT TO CONCLUDE THIS THIS COULD BE FIXED MAYBE IF TEACHERS OR ANY STAFF RELATED TO EDUCATION WISE LISTEN TO THE STUDENTS AND COMMENT OR RECORD WHAT IS RELATED TO REACH STUDENTS WORDS.BUT IF STUDENTS PUT THEIR MIND INTO WHAT THEY BELIEVE THEN EVERY GOAL COUNTS.
ReplyDeleteI think that your future can directly be affected by your parents and in some situations can't.If your parents are the type of people that are laid back when it comes to discipline and school then you would grow up being whatever you would normally experience during your days.Even if your parents disciplined you well you could act all good when your around them and be the exact opposite of what they think you are,like if a gets punished by their parents for being disrespectful to them he or she would just behave that way to someone else instead of their parents.If your parents were really strict and didn't like mistakes you could end up being an uptight person or having constant breakdowns because of the stress that you have to endure.If you decide that you might want to be a cop your parents could try everything to persuade you not to because they want you to become a doctor or some other high paying career,but later on you end up become a cop despite what your parents wanted.But when it comes to how you were raised then it's all about how you control your life.Even if you got all the attention you needed while growing up,how you handle situations are what really make up your future.It doesn't matter how well you were raised,spoiled or not,how you end up is based off of your experiences.Your parents could have done everything to ensure that you have good grades in school from k-12,but you can still end up living a miserable life yelling through a drive through intercom because a customer can't here you because of how you control yourself.As a teenager you could only be around your parents or guardian for a few hours a day,the rest of the time is either spent with other people,at school,or alone.So it's up to you to decide how your destiny.When you start getting older you seldom stay the same as you were when you were younger since you have a lot more freedom where you have to make more tough choices.
ReplyDeleteI think if you are raised in a house where your parents are treating you wrong then you shouldn’t want to go and follow their footsteps you would want to try to make it out on your own. Some people look at it as if their parents are doing it why shouldn’t they do it also, but in some cases it is not always like that what they might do might lead you into a place where they suppose to be. Whatever you do now may effect on how you would act in your future because that means you never knew better so you might not really know right from wrong. In some cases parents may not be in the child’s life so they might not have a figure to look up to or someone to go to but if that was the case if you know any of your aunts or uncle’s you can go to them and ask for help. As you are getting older you will get more mature and then you will look back at everything and realize that what your parents use to do wasn’t right. If you your parents are setting a positive role and they are teaching you the importance of life then your destiny can depend on what you might be in the future. For Example, you could be a teacher, therapist, guidance counselor someone that will help kids with their problems and help them overcome all of their troubles. Your parents are suppose to guide you and help you get through the challenges that are set for you and they are suppose to train your thought of mind and help you make the right decisions, but that’s if they are setting a prime example in your lifestyle. If life repeats its self then you will eventually learn from all your mistakes and just make sure that you will never make those mistakes again. You can set a good example on some else life and let them know never to waist there time. Let them know it’s everyone who might need the help because no one is perfect.
ReplyDeleteShaafiy Simpson- I believe that there are two key factors that determines a person's destiny. The individual and family are the most important things that can determine a person's destiny.the reason why family can determine one's destiny is because that environment affects the person the most especially as a child. So for example if the kid grows up in a negative environment then the kid would be a negative person, if the kid grows up in a positive environment then the kid would be a positive person. This is were the second factor can determine a person's destiny. If the kid grows up with a loving and caring family but somewhere down the road the kid decides to rebel against what is right, then that person's destiny isn't going to be a bright one. Also if a kid grows up with a family that is full of hate hopefully the kid would decide to be the exact opposite of that and grow up to be a person that is full of joy and love. In the end I personally think that ones destiny depends on that specific person but the experiences that the person go through in life wether good or bad can change it.
ReplyDeleteI believe that most of the time the people that are around you will affect you in some type of way. However I do not believe how you are raised controls your destiny and future. If you’re around someone all the time they tend to rub off on you, but you get to decide if the people that you’re around are good for you are not. Even if it’s a family member you have the choice to distance yourself away from them; you don’t have to be offensive to them in anyway. All you have to remember is that I don’t want to end up like this person or have the same personality traits they do and you will be just fine. I honestly can say I believe no one controls your future at all. If you just so happened to get older and what you originally wanted in life didn’t happen that’s your fault, People who say “I’m not this because my mom was never there.” Or “I didn’t do this cause my friends were bad influences.” Are people that don’t take responsibly for there actions and problems. Instead of saying what they did wrong they tend to blame the people around them. I never like to be around people like that because I don’t want them blaming me for any of their faults. Obviously they don’t know how to take control of their lives and when it doesn’t go the way they plan they blame the closest person by them. Ultimately everything you do in life is up to you; in the end what you do will always affect your life and be your mistakes no matter what you say. If you’re in a very bad situation it’s important that you don’t give up on yourself because when you give up on yourself for good that’s the end of what could have been a promising future. If it gets to the point where people don’t believe in you and have no faith in you that’s fine because they can’t live your life for you. You only have one life to live and only one person could live it for you and know matter what the circumstances that person will always only be you.
ReplyDeleteHow I was raise by my parents has about 45% effect on my future. They helped me start goin to school. Help me make some smart choices and some were'nt so good. But its all about me taking he wheel. My parents raised me for only about 12years. and Im 17 now. Having to do alot of thing on my own. Not even a conversation I get from neither one of my parents because they feel its all bout me taking the wheel too. I guess teens gotta grow up early now. By the time you hit 16 you gonna feel like you 18 or even 20. Thats my opinion. My parents have no impact on my future. And im sure they feel the same way.
ReplyDeleteI think that it doesnt matter how your parents bring u up. I personaly think its our own life that we live, who is our parents to tell us what and what not to do cause when we get older they can't tell us nothing at all. Like we are teenagers and its our time to shine we already been a baby before we dnt need to be baby'ed over again and again. To me I think that im my own man at the end of the day and i make my own choices like our parents can only tell us so much, but it's up to us to do what we got to do in life. Because they even have children that have wealthy parents and they expect their child to be respectful , and there child would be the worst thing on earth. Meaning their child would b doing drugs, going in the wrong path, or just do nothing with their life at all. So I disagree on how our parents impact on us depends how we go on in life.
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